Tips to Improve Sleep

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We never really understand how vital it is for us to sleep until it is taken away from us. If you have problems getting asleep or staying asleep, here are some tips that can help you get better and more restful sleep!

Stay out of the bed during the day

Use your bed as a place for sleep. If you are doing things like studying and laying in bed during the day, it can take away from the idea of the bed being a place for rest.

Avoid daytime napping

This is a huge culprit for having problems sleeping at night, try to fight the urge to take naps during the day so when it is time for bed, you are actually tired.

Turn off the screens

Avoid screens like TV and phones 1 or 2 hours before bed. Not only can it be a strain on the eyes, but it will help your brain know to wind down. Also Google the “Blue Light Effect” and how much it impacts your ability to fall asleep.

Go to bed when you are actually getting tired

Don’t go and lay in bed waiting to fall asleep. This can cause your mind to race and you might find yourself staying up even longer.

Try to have a more regular sleep schedule

If you go to sleep at 11 and get up at 7, stick with it! Having inconsistent sleep schedules confuses our Circadian Rhythm and sometimes we have issues actually falling asleep when needed.

The ones that have been the most helpful for me is avoiding my TV and phone at night. There have been so many instances I have watched hours go by on the clock without even realizing it because of endlessly scrolling through my social media. It also helps clear my head and my mind right before bed.

I am also working on having a more consistent sleep schedule. I usually get up at 6:30 and aim to be in bed by 10pm. It helps me stay structured and when it gets close to my bedtime, I really notice myself getting tired and ready for bed. My body has already gotten used to this schedule and it helps me feel more refreshed and awake in the morning.


What techniques do you use to fall asleep? Does your child have problems sleeping? What signs do you look out for to see how your child’s sleep is going?

Trans Mental Health

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I started testosterone last month. And while I haven’t noticed any changes, yet, I’m still infinitely grateful. Even though needles scare me, I’m able to bear through it, which is a testament to how important this is to me. If you told me I was on testosterone a year ago, I wouldn’t believe you. This has been a dream for me since sixth grade.  Continue reading Trans Mental Health

Finding Myself

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I believe that everyone should embrace who they are, and be proud of their unique traits, but how can I do that if I don’t even know who I am? I always knew that I was just going to be myself, and see where life takes me, but it hasn’t been that simple. I am a good student with great grades, I have amazing friends who support me through anything, my family is wonderful, so what else could I possibly be troubled with? Continue reading Finding Myself

Staying Active

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The weather in Pittsburgh is getting warmer again and it’s been a good reminder for me to get outside more and try to stay active. I have seen the huge positive impact exercise has on my personal mental health and it can also help me control the weight gain side effects of my current medications. I often neglect physical activity because I feel like I don’t have time in my busy schedule or I’m too afraid of “gymtimidation.” I’m working to care less about what other people think of me or my body, but in the meantime, I’m finding ways to stay active outside of the gym. Continue reading Staying Active

Who’s Keeping Score?

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Do you ever feel like you are constantly losing or failing in that one area of your life you are trying so hard to be successful in? Do you ever know the “right” thing to do in a situation mentally but don’t actually act on that knowledge? It can be hard – especially for those of us who are in therapy or other forms of counseling and are doing the work to improve our mental health. Having head knowledge of how to change but not implementing it can make you feel terrible. It’s like, am I even trying to change? If I were, wouldn’t this be easier? If only our will alone could lead to long-lasting change. Continue reading Who’s Keeping Score?

Dealing with Disappointment

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About half a year ago, I had started an application to my dream school, I knew the chances were slim but I was determined to set that aside and try my best. I went to almost every Zoom webinar and was encouraged by my friends, family, former teachers coaches, and even staff at this school. I worked on it for 8 months and when the deadline came around, I started counting the days until the decision. Then I was counting the hours. Then I was counting the minutes. Continue reading Dealing with Disappointment

Continuing to Check-In Post-COVID

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Now that we can (hopefully) see the soon to be light at the end of the tunnel for the quarantine and the aftermath of the COVID pandemic, I want to make sure we continue to check-in with ourselves and our own mental health. Things are starting to open up again after over a year and things will slowly begin to work their way closer to “normal.” Continue reading Continuing to Check-In Post-COVID

My Experience at RE:SOLVE Residential Program

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Over the past few weeks and months, like many others, I have been struggling immensely with my mental health. A series of panic attacks, depressive episodes, and anxiety-filled breakdowns have really spiraled out of control due to a mix of stressors from work, family, and more. It got to a tipping point earlier this month when I felt uncomfortable being alone, and that’s when I knew that I needed more help. Continue reading My Experience at RE:SOLVE Residential Program