The Pros and Cons of Keeping Multiple Journals

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An example of a bullet journal.

Journaling is a highly effective way to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. It’s a great tool for staying mindful and learning more about yourself. And since journaling is what you make of it, you can record however much or little you want—or even keep multiple journals!

Right now, I have four journals: a bullet journal for planning purposes, a journal in which I record things to share with my therapist, a food journal to help me stay on track in my eating disorder recovery, and a theatre journal, where I keep track of the plays I read, potential audition materials, and other goals for my theatrical studies.

I’ve found great organizational advantages in keeping multiple journals, but it’s a somewhat hefty undertaking, and it may not be helpful for everyone. So, what might be the benefits of keeping several journals?

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Can Fame, Success, and Money Cure Depression and Anxiety?

We all know Michael Phelps, right?

He’s the most successful and most decorated Olympic athlete of all time, with a total of 28 medals.

phelpsmedalsPhelps was only 19—still an adolescent!—when he went to the Olympics in Athens and tied the record of winning eight medals of any color at a single Olympic Games.

And what happens when an athlete, even an adolescent athlete, is that successful?—He becomes a celebrity. Corporations offer millions of dollars in endorsement fees. Michael Phelps’s net worth is estimated to be $55 million.

A lot of people might think that all that fame, success, and money would make his life happy and secure. But those things did not heal the lifelong anxiety and depression that Michael Phelps says he has experienced.

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Thinking about Independence

Happy Independence Day! Today’s holiday celebrates the action of the Continental Congress, which on July 4, 1776 declared that the 13 colonies would be colonies no more, but independent states. Of course Britain, who believed it was in charge of the colonies, didn’t like the prospect of this separation one bit. And so began a protracted fight that lasted more than eight years.

independence02We can see more than a little similarity here with the ways adolescents declare their independence from their families.

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How to Spend Our Free Time in the Summer

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If you’re anything like me, you may be finding it hard to be motivated this summer. I’ve spent more than a few days on my couch bingeing shows on Netflix. As relaxing and nice as that can be, I know I need to break up that time doing other more productive things that build my self-esteem.

Whether you are searching for a job, taking a summer off, completing summer courses, or, in my case, not getting enough hours at work, I have some suggestions to help make your summer a good one.

  1. Explore new places or revisit some old favorites. Take this time to reach out to a friend and plan to go out somewhere. Summer is the perfect time to find a new hangout spot!
  2. Take more walks. I’ve been enjoying the warm weather lately and have been taking long walks to fully bask in it. Just make sure to wear some sunscreen if it is a hot day! (I’m going to have to learn how to take my own advice there.) And take the dog. Research shows that looking into a dog’s face boosts the bonding hormone oxytocin.
  3. Practice a sport. If your leagues are off for the summer, start a pick-up game in the park. Research shows that exercise is just as effective as antidepressants at lifting the mood, and there are no side-effects!
  4. I read books constantly in the summertime to pass time and enjoy the escapism. I talk to a lot of people who tell me they wish they enjoyed reading more, and I always suggest audiobooks. I switch between both, but I love using audiobooks when I am taking walks or commuting.
  5. Finally finish that project you have been working on. During the school year, it is so easy to put creative projects aside when the workload becomes too much. Finish that story you were writing, make the piece of art you sketched a long time ago, or pick up that musical instrument you have wanted to learn for years.

Let’s be easy on ourselves. Summer is a fun time, but it can also be overwhelming when we don’t always have plans and things to occupy our time. Remember that we do not need to be active and having fun every second of the summer, and that this list is merely suggestions to help out.

How does your child like to spend his or her free time in the summers? Let us know below!

How to Make Our Summer Worthwhile

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For many people, the word summer brings excitement, joy and anticipation. Everyone waits all year round for summer vacation and the long-awaited, well-deserved break from school. In my school, people start discussing their summer plans and options as early as January!

Although it can be exciting to hear the talk about summer plans, there are plenty of people who do not get as excited when they hear the subject brought up for the twentieth time. While most people are securing their summer plans—whether it be a summer job, a trip, or a summer camp with friends—there is most likely at least one person in your circle of friends and acquaintances who does not have a single plan yet. They may feel insecure about going somewhere new, or feel left out of someone’s camp group, or feel the pressure of needing to do something, and the uncertainty can create intense stress.

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Coping with Social Anxiety

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Have you ever gone to a party or had to talk in front of others and felt sick to your stomach with anxiety about the prospect? Have you ever felt so nauseated and nervous that others are judging you the wrong way? If this is the case, you may be suffering with social anxiety, also known as social phobia.  You always may have felt this way but were never able to put your finger on exactly what it was.

Suffering from social anxiety can be difficult in lots of ways, but finding the right help can ease your anxiety and help you socialize and enjoy being in the presence of others.

You might ask, But how can I get better?

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Antidepressant Warnings

It’s important to understand the risks of taking any medication. But it’s also important to understand where those risks came from.

There is a black box warning on antidepressants for children and young adults. This is a warning put out by the Food and Drug Association (FDA) to say that the medication might cause serious injury.

This warning is based on research studies which looked at the possible risks of taking an antidepressant. The studies done on medication are usually randomized controlled trials. The researchers will set certain rules about who can be in the study. Then once they agree to be in the study, the person is randomly selected either to get the real medicine or to get a fake medicine (placebo) which looks the same—or sometimes a different medicine. In the best studies, neither the patient nor the healthcare practitioner evaluating how well they are doing  know which medicine they received. (See this link for more information explaining clinical trials.)

In 2004, the FDA looked at a study which combined the results of different studies or a meta-analysis of studies looking at children and adolescents taking antidepressants. They found that no one in these studies died from suicide. But some people did have more thoughts of suicide, or they attempted suicide.

  • In the group that didn’t get medicine, suicidal thoughts or behavior happened in 2% of the people.
  • In the group that did get medicine, suicidal thoughts or behavior happened in 4% of all the people.

Overall the risk was low in both groups. The risk in the group taking medicine then is thought to be higher by 2 people in 100 (2%).

The problem is, it is tough to know whether antidepressant medications increase the risk of suicide, because the illness they’re designed to treat—depression—increases the risk for suicide. We do know that many more young people experience benefits from antidepressants than experience suicidal thoughts or behavior.

Although it is hard to say what caused what, after the FDA warning came out in 2004, there were fewer antidepressant prescriptions. At the same time, suicide rates went up in young people. 

It can be hard to know what to do. This is where health providers can be helpful to patients in thinking about how to weigh the risks and benefits.

  • What are the risks of doing nothing? What are the risks of doing something?
  • What are the benefits of doing nothing? What are the benefits of doing something?
  • What are the different alternatives for that something?

Either way it really helps to have a professional monitor you no matter what you decide to do, but especially when you start to take an antidepressant.

Does the research make sense to you? What further questions do you have that we can help answer?

Mr. Rogers: The Celebrity Who Taught Resilience and Self-Regard

“Would you be mine, could you be mine? Won’t you be…my neighbor?”

How many of us can still sing that song without a hitch?

On June 8, a new documentary was released to theaters recalling the life of a man who affected so many of our childhoods. Countless children felt like members Mr. Rogers’ beloved neighborhood, along with Daniel Striped Tiger, Mr. McFeely, and the rest of the neighbors.

Fred Rogers’ life was filled with fame and success, but he was quite unlike the celebrities we so often see on TV or on our phones. In one broadcast hour, Mr. Rogers made it his business to reach out to hundreds of thousands of children and teach them skills and attitudes that would protect their mental health. Rather than focusing primarily on advancing his career, he sought to make a kind, thoughtful generation. As a Christian minister trained at the Pittsburgh Theological Seminary, he took it upon himself to use the power of his position on television to teach children about moral values. Check out this article to learn more about Mr. Rogers’s life.

Mr. Rogers’ mission was to devote his life to caring for and developing strengths and resilience in the coming generations. He worked very closely with several University of Pittsburgh scholars, notably Dr. Margaret McFarland, a child psychologist and Pitt faculty member. He was extremely interested in child development, and Dr. McFarland helped him include her reliable academic knowledge in his media content. Visit this website to learn more about Mr. Rogers’ work at Pitt.

Armed with advice from Dr. McFarland, a few unique songs that he wrote himself, and his distinctive voice that created characters out of puppets, Mr. Rogers taught young viewers about real world issues and values for over 40 years. A mild-mannered person, he still didn’t shy away from difficult issues, such as civil rights, conflict resolution, depression, disability, and divorce.

His teachings about self-love stayed with his audiences throughout their lives, helping to create a foundation for positive self-regard that is the basis for resilience later in life. His overriding message: each viewer was special just for being themselves! Many of his messages and songs still remain in the hearts and minds of adults today. One of the neighbors from the “Neighborhood of Make-Believe” now has his own show for young children, called Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood.

Did you feel like a member of Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood, too? What are your fondest memories of watching Mr. Rogers’ show? Let us know in the comments!

To learn more about Pittsburgh’s own Mr. Rogers, check out his new documentary in theatres now. And remember, you are special!

People of Color & Mental Illness Photo Project

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Screen Shot 2018-06-18 at 12.42.28 PM Mental illness is often seen as a “white person’s disease”—a product of privilege, a chosen illness. It is represented in the media by people who are white, while those who are not suffer in silence. The most important thing to remember is that mental illness does not discriminate according to race—or any other demographic, including class, gender, and so on.

To counter racial misunderstanding and foster positive attitudes toward mental health, Dior Vargas, a Latina mental health activist, created The People of Color and Mental Illness Photo Project. It aims to change the way mental illness is represented in our society, giving a voice to those in underrepresented communities who also suffer from these diseases, by raising awareness and positive self-regard.

Vargas is also a keynote speaker who travels and hosts workshops at various colleges and universities. She aims to raise awareness and change the way we view mental illness. To see her upcoming workshops and the scope of her work, check out her website.

If you’d like to participate in her photo project, send in a photo of yourself holding a sign that says “I’m [your name] and I have a mental illness [or the exact type].” Some examples and more directions about how to submit can be found here!

How racially diverse is your circle of friends, acquaintances, and colleagues? How might it change your attitudes about your own mental health to submit a photograph of yourself with a personal statement? Share with us in the comments!

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Oh No—I Forgot To Take My Antidepressant Today!

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RED ALERT! Sound the alarms! Batten down the hatches! I forgot to take my antidepressant!

The above panic was me earlier this week. I take an SSRI antidepressant each day when I wake up in the morning—it has been part of my daily routine for the past year. I even got myself a day-of-the-week pill box to help remind me if I took my medication or not. I’ve been great at staying consisten

However, last Tuesday when I was about to go to bed, I saw it: the Tuesday box had been unopened.

Cue: cold sweats and anxiety.

What should I do? I had a lot of questions:

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